- I hate my birthday! she shouted from the back.
-Why do you hate your birthday Mathilda? I asked, looking into the rear view mirror.
- I hate my birthday because it’s in the summer, and every summer we go to the beach and I haaaaate the water. She said pouting.
I felt bad for her, we were on the way to the pool for a school outing.
- I understand. I used to hate the water too. I replied with empathy. But one day, all of a sudden I started to love the water and now, Loik calls me water woman. Maybe it will happen to you too!
She didn’t get a chance to respond. We had just pulled into the parking lot, and Loik and the other boy were already racing to the main entrance…
All the kids jumped into the pool at once; arms waving, legs kicking; water splashing everywhere. The once still waters came alive thanks to this unbounded energy. A cacophony of shouts and excited giggles bounced off the walls as the teacher tried to bring everyone to order.
Mathilda stood poolside, clutching her life vest. She was terrified. She started to cry and refused to put even one toe into the pool. My heart went out to her as I watched from the sidelines. One very pregnant teacher, Anita, had decided to join us on our little pool expedition and I watched her as she encouraged the frightened 6 year old. I couldn’t make out what she was saying but I’ll never forget the kindness and warmth in her smile. Finally, Mathilda stepped into the pool. Anita patiently walked around in the water with the little girl hanging on to her for dear life.
My attention drifted away for a while as I looked at my son and his friends having fun in the deep end. I’m glad he’s never been afraid of the water - I thought. At his age, I was more like Mathilda when it came to swimming. I would choke up and panic as soon as I stopped touching the ground.
The afternoon went on and the kids were having a blast. I scanned the pool for Mathilda.
Imagine my surprise when I saw her swimming towards me … in a life vest, but by herself!
Mathilda!!! Wow!!! I stood and clapped. Anita was beaming as she swam close behind. Mathilda!!!! Bravo!!! Good for you!!! She came out of the water and came straight towards me her blue eyes sparkling with pride.
Did you see? Did you SEE? I can swim now. I love the water! Her smile light up the room. She turned, jumped into the water and swam away.
It’s not everyday we see someone overcome their fear. It was incredibly inspiring to see the pride and joy in her eyes as part of her realized she could overcome her fear and accomplish everything she sets her mind to. I hope she remembers this day for the rest of her life. I know I will.
A special thought goes out to Anita and to all the wonderful teachers out there who are on a mission to help us evolve into strong and confident people. You are truly angels on earth and I am grateful for your presence in our lives.
In an effort to overcome my own well documented fears, I’ve decided to start posting a few doodles. This is me dipping my big toe into the water so to speak.
So this first little doodle is being posted in honor of Mathilda a very brave little water woman.
If you’re looking for a sign that this is the time to let go of you fear, this is it! You can do it!
Sending bright beams of positive energy to you!
**all names have been changed to protect their right to privacy **
Wow, that is very inspiring! I love your doodle. She is soooo cute! She reminds me of you. I can see you in her. She sits there with confidence and pride. Bravo for Mathilda!
Thank you my friend! Actually, she reminds me of you too!